My view on how I dress may not reflect what others see.
If
'Casual, not typically femme' is 1
'As femme as most girls dress' is 5
and
'Super-tranny-femme, OMG, WTF, you're a hot mess' is 10
I tend to move between 4 and 8 depending on mood.
I think it's pretty accurate though considering my GF is pretty good at letting me know when something is 'too much'...
That isn't to say I wont wear it, I will, but it just reflects one end of how I like to project.
The other end is just for feet-up days, or doing housework etc
Do I try to dress like a real woman?
I guess so, sometimes. Other times I dress to feel good.