Briana, you have it wrong by 180 degrees. It is not that the LGBT community excludes you, it is you yourself who excludes the LGBT community by standing to one side shouting "I am not gay!"
I disagree with the OP's suggestion of splitting CD's off from the Trans community as much as I disagree with your refusal to accept LGBT help because you dislike the sexuality of one part of that community. Go back and reread the history of Stonewall, I'm pretty sure that the cross-dressers who were being attacked by police didn't shout out to the rioters "Eww! Don't stand up for us, we are not gay!"
