CD'ers and LGBT

[TheMissus]

Thanks Leona, I'll have to look up that thread as I've heard Transvestic Fetishism before and I think my H has said this of himself, along with the autogynephilia thing. I do know he spent some time pondering what all this was (I might have made him, lol) and I think he'd almost hoped it was more a 'feminine identity' issue as there's less stigma with that. But reality is he does it as a sex thing and even when fantasizing about looking like a women he's STILL a guy ogling her. I'm equally confused about this, lol.

But this is off thread topic so thanks anyway for the info and I'll go have a read

So are you saying that nothing your husband ever does crosses the gender divide? What about when he presents as a woman, is he not then crossing the gender divide? Trans means across, why is that so hard for some people?

I guess I don't spend much time around trans people so I'm a little ignorant of the words. But yes, when you put it that way my H's fantasies are a trans thing as he does cross gender lines in his head and clothing - I just didn't know if the other groups wanted fetish types included. I guess that clears this up for me.