While there are many who really do want to be women, there are still quite a few of us that enjoy being men too! I dress when I can and I really do enjoy it, but there are many more days where I don't feel like going through the routine. It takes a while to hone this ape into a proper lady. I present as my male self about 98% of the time.
From the short time that I have come to terms with this side of my life, I have found that we (cd'r) are all different. None of us have exactly the same ambitions when it comes to dressing. Some want to dress all the time, and others (much like me) keep it in the closet most of the time. There is a whole range of differences here.
I'm sorry to hear that your BF didn't feel like he belonged here. But that is ok too. He is always welcomed to come back if he has a question or needs some advice. The girls here are great at giving advice from many different angles!
He is a lucky man to have a lady who is willing to go the extra mile to understand what this is all about! Good for you!
