Greenie, I think of being TG as a continuum. On one end are folks who occasionally wear women's items. On the other end are those who need to transition completely and become female.
Most of us live somewhere in the middle. We find a comfortable place in the continuum that meets our needs and those of our loved ones.
This forum provides a safe place to talk about ourselves and what we do. I happen to like to go out in publlc dressed and occasionally write about it. This does not mean that going out is for everyone. There are also sections in the forum where our TS members talk about their experiences. When they experience a milestone in their journeys I will join in congratulating them. That does not mean that their path is the one I should be on.
Occasionally a member will mistake the continuum for a competition. Remember that many of us are testosterone-impaired so we tend to be naturally competitive, even when femininity is concerned. It's a competition only if one chooses to compete.
Greenie, your SO is as welcome here as anyone else. If he feels that he is being treated badly I ask that he contact me via PM and I will do my best to correct the situation.
