How do you feel about women?

[GBJoker]

PaulaQ: I understand fully that the situation your wife finds herself in is still some what common. But after having just now chain-smoked half a pack to try to cool off a bit, I realize this; clearly, we, and whowhatwhen and I... and maybe me vs dozens of others on this site, have such radically different viewpoints as to be completely irreconcilable, to the point where we may never understand each other. So... I'm done. I'm out.

I am not anti-women-masturbating. If a female is single, or dating some one who is cool with it/doesn't care, she can do it however often she likes. Five times a day, for all I care. And hell, I even encourage it, because of all the health benefits, which are far and away well documented.

The reason I would dump a girl, or guy for that matter, who masturbated while dating me is simultaneously simple and complex. I do not know how to make a person happy. I don't know what presents are acceptable in this society. I don't know what acts are acceptable. I am physically incapable of comprehending what I can do to make a person happy in a relationship. What I do know, is considered heavily stalkerish by today's standards, and... I just don't want to be arrested. So, in my mind, if I can't make the person I'm dating happy... in... physical aspects, then I have ultimately failed, 100% of the way. And I do have evidence and some proof that I will never be able to make a female physically happy in a relationship. Thus, assuming the hypothetical that I'm in a relationship with a girl, and she is masturbating or using sex toys, I will ALWAYS see that as a signal that I am failing. Failing at doing my job, or being a good boy/girlfriend, whatever I am anymore. Failing at being a good person, in general.

Now, if you will excuse me, I will leave this thread forever, and go bury my face in a pillow.