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    I usually prefer flats to heels. I find them more comfortable and more practical.

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    You're letting your logical, practical side take over. But they sent you a world that could be so sensible, respectable, responsible, a vegetable.

    I've never been a big fan of heels either. I accept them as formal wear for a girl, and that's pretty much it.

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    My feet are size 12EEEE so finding femme shoes that fit and look nice id an ordeal, even on line. But I do have a couple pairs I found at Payless and I love them more every time I put them on. At 6ft2 in stockings, I don't need the extra height, but I now see I walk more upright and with smaller steps, even when I am back in my boy shoes. My black 3" high booties and my 2" slides make my feet look just that much smaller, even daintier, if that's possible. On the other hand, my 3" pumps are a disappointment, as they feel like they want to fall apart. So I keep looking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deedee Skyblue View Post
    Geez, Freddy, don't you know that on page 3 of the Crossdresser's Rule Book it says "Crossdressers must LOVE heels, the higher the better!"
    THIS. No heels and a moderate skirt length? What are you, a woman? Now get yourself a glittery party dress, some fishnet stockings and a pair of killer heels or I'm going to call the TG cops on you to revoke your CD card.

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    Well, I love my heels, but do wear flats now and the. Okay, I wore flats on an outing once. I doubt I'd ever really dress if it wasn't for 4 inch heels. Most are NOT COMFORTABLE, but a few of them are I have 4 pair that are 6 inches, but would never wear them out. I usually wear skirtsuits, and 3 to 4 inch heels look the best with suits. In MHO. Just a preference, really. Wear what you enjoy and be happy.

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    It's Dorothy,
    No it's Frédérique,
    Hi frederique,
    nice shoes, pinnafore, dress and the lacy slip
    I tried to peel the picture back thlook further up but that did not work.
    Depending wherthe you are looking out for floods, tornadoes or just able to socialise there are shoes for all occasions.
    Even in London and NY it is a low heeled boot for me.
    Not young enough and frisky looking to tread the boards these days.
    At a private party I do look different, I lead with my cleavage and high heels.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Frédérique, I do appreciate my heels, but I wear both heels and flats, according to my mood or whatever fits what else I'm wearing. I do like the flats you're wearing in your picture and I would totally wear those.

    I'm just getting to be a real shoe enthusiast, I guess. Now I know how Imelda Marcos must have felt.

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    Love heels and cant buy enough.
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    I love to wear heels. Wish I can wear heels all the time. Have noticed though that the heels I like to wear are not practical to the things I like to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tamara Croft View Post
    HEATHEN!!! Go wash your mouth out.... just shoes indeed
    Yes kind of like a belt, just an accessory!
    All I ever wanted was to be a girl. Is that really asking too much?

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    For me its all about the heels (but of course) I don't think that i am complete unless I am wearing a pair of heels, and yes, I have one or two pairs of flats for just in case, but I just never even think of wearing them...

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    First of all nice pic Freddy, looks like maybe you were dressed for the festival. Festival time in Lindsborg is a lot of fun I regret to say its been a long long time since I've been there.

    As for I do like my heels, for me they make me feel more feminine but then it also depends on my mood. If I'm going to be cooking or doing housework while dressed I much prefer flats. Although I'm a poor girl, with big feet, and I don't have many shoes.
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    If they'd look in the mirror they'd find.
    That ever since the beginning to keep the world spinning
    It takes all kinds of kinds.

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    Despite my height, I still love heels. But iit's not just CDrs...my wife and daughters do too...my wife's only non heeled footwear are tennis shoes.

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    For me heels just look and make me more feminine.
    If I would were flats, they would be my work shoes.

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    A miniskirt and flats? You have got to be kidding Do I need to compose a photo to illustrate this point!

    Are my heels comfy, only when sitting. Do they help the legs and mini rock...absolutely. The price we pay for presentation.

    My take on heels......The look you love, The feel you hate.

    Hugs, Robin

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    Personally, it's a matter of taste. There's no law that says you have to rush out and buy 7" heels to totter around in. In the end it's how comfortable you feel in the footwear you choose. I have a couple pair of flats that I like to wear if I'm going to be running around all day, I have heels in heights ranging from 2" to 4". The 4" I usually wear for my fetish photo shoots. But my 2" heels, I can walk in them all day and feel just fine. But no matter what heel height, my feet are going to be sore if I'm on my feet all day regardless. My feet can get sore even when I'm in guy mode wearing sneakers, LOL!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frédérique View Post
    Are you wild about heels?
    Let's see, on the one hand they are awkward, impractical and dangerous. On the other they make my legs look feminine and sexy. It's obviously no contest. I LOVE heels.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynn Marie
    Frederique, you are one silly girl indeed. You're not the first CD I've met who doesn't wear heels. I don't understand the other one either!
    You know, Lynn, there’s ALL TYPES of MtF crossdressers out there! :D

    Quote Originally Posted by heatherdress
    I don't think that flats disease, known as flatcousis, is contagious or fatal. But I believe it to be treatable. Maybe you could see a shoe therapist. Just don't give up.
    I was sure that someone would propose therapy, but I cannot be cured…

    Quote Originally Posted by Deedee Skyblue
    Geez, Freddy, don't you know that on page 3 of the Crossdresser's Rule Book it says "Crossdressers must LOVE heels, the higher the better!"
    Sorry, I don’t have a spiky personality. My #1 rule is BE HAPPY!"

    Quote Originally Posted by TXKimberly
    You don't like heels?! What the hell is wrong with you?! Freak . . .
    I love it when other crossdressers call me a FREAK! Yay! I lured you out of hiding, Kim…

    Quote Originally Posted by Wildaboutheels
    I don't do dresses or flats if it's any consolation to you Freddy...
    I barely “do” dresses, if that’s any consolation…

    Quote Originally Posted by Beverly Sims
    nice shoes, pinnafore, dress and the lacy slip
    I tried to peel the picture back thlook further up but that did not work.
    Depending wherthe you are looking out for floods, tornadoes or just able to socialise there are shoes for all occasions.
    Check out the Swedish colors, eh? These days, here in central Kansas, I need a good pair of Wellies (lots of flooding)…

    Quote Originally Posted by Audrey34
    Personally, it's a matter of taste. There's no law that says you have to rush out and buy 7" heels to totter around in.
    That reminds me. Paul Stanley of Kiss has had two (or is it three?) hip operations, due to decades of running around in platform shoes…

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    I thought heels were the only way to go until heels met the soft ground of my back yard. Nothing like sinking into the soft turf. Heels for in the home. Flats for walking in the turf. Also, a nice pair of flats with a silent sole are better for strolling along residential sidewalks in the quiet evening. As a not so passable CD-er heels tend to attract unwanted attention.

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    If I could buy men's shoes with heels I'd wear them every day. However, I generally prefer my fem heels to be very high and a bit too tite. All hi heels help my posture. I can dance in my ladies heels all nite. Men's flat shoes? Maybe 20 minutes!

    Now for me, it's undies! Couldn't care less what kind I'm wearing. Unless it's for "undies showing" lingerie pics! For just those instances I have bags full of them!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelly Smith View Post
    Let's see, on the one hand they are awkward, impractical and dangerous. I LOVE heels.
    Yes Kelly I agree, Plus my legs and footsies hurt after dancing in them. But, I love them. Plus, I love my flats also. Cute flats are nice also.

    Quote Originally Posted by Frédérique View Post
    You know, Lynn, there’s ALL TYPES of MtF crossdressers out there! :D
    Yes, there is. How boring it would be it we all dressed the same.

    I was sure that someone would propose therapy, but I cannot be cured…
    Are you sure, I have a fix but I'm sure you won't like it.

    Sorry, I don’t have a spiky personality. My #1 rule is BE HAPPY!"
    Good Job, why be sad and/or Grouchy......Yuk

    I love it when other crossdressers call me a FREAK! Yay! I lured you out of hiding, Kim…
    You're not a freak, just different.

    I barely “do” dresses, if that’s any consolation…
    What the Hell is wrong with you, You are a freak

    Check out the Swedish colors, eh? These days, here in central Kansas, I need a good pair of Wellies (lots of flooding)…
    Some Rubber boots would work. You can get them in pink, you know

    That reminds me. Paul Stanley of Kiss has had two (or is it three?) hip operations, due to decades of running around in platform shoes…
    When wearing Heels, you don't do the things you would normally do in your sneakers. You would just have too sit there and look pretty and smile.:D

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    I choose my heal height based on the outfit that I am wearing. Most clothes look best with a certain height of shoe, form flats to 4 inch heels. The exception for me would be jeans and then it depends on the look that I am after. Really like wearing jeans with boots that have a two to three inch heel for a dressy look, but flats or runners for a casual look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TxKimberly View Post
    You don't like heels?! What the hell is wrong with you?! Freak . . .

    lol

    I personally believe that each girl here should wear whatever makes her comfortable. We worry so much about blending and not sticking out that we alter our wardrobe from what we want to wear to what we think we should wear just because everyone else wears it.

    Hey, if you prefer flats, then by god, wear your flats. I don't think there is anything wrong with not liking heels and you seem to have solid reasons why you personally don't like them. Like you said, to each their own :D

    For me, yes, I am wild about heels. I love everything about them. From the moment my foot slides into them to the click clack of them bouncing off the walls lol For a girl that seldom goes out, you would think that one or two pairs would be enough but no, I just passed pair 20 and still look for new ones every time I am out shopping Do I understand why I love heels so much? no, but then again, there's alot about "this" that I don't understand
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    Oh no, I like the opposite look heels with pants. I do wear flats though if I actually have to do something that requires walking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Freddy
    Well, they seem rather impractical to me......
    Practicality has nothing to do with it!

    I'm afraid I'm in the camp with the other ladies who absolutely LOVE heels. I love the way they look, the way they feel, and the way they make me feel. I enjoy walking in them, too. Sure, they don't make much sense, but then, does crossdressing in general make any sense to begin with?

    I'm completely on board with gorgeous, lovely heels. Oh.....and no offense.....none at all, my dear Freddy........but I hate flats! :yucky:


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