I think I can be selfish at times I suppose, but who isn't at one time or another? About 4 months ago I transferred to working 2nd shift from 3rds at my job so that my wife, and I could actually see each other more than 15 min a day(she works 2nds). While I love that I get to spend a few hours with her everyday now, I find myself kind of wishing I could go back on 3rds so that I could dress more often(when she's at work, and such) instead of having to wait till she goes on a trip with her mother, and I actually get more than 2 hrs to myself at any given time. Oh well, such is life...