I believe Denae Doyle, a famous femininity coach has videos for that Hon. Do a search on her. In any case, when I dance I have feminine, not effeminate movements naturally. You learn to use your hands more and when you walk or dance you do it from the hips. If your long range plans are to transition and you have HRT, it should expand your hips enough to be able to do this. To practice just remember one foot in front of the other when walking as a woman.
