Is it really so hard to believe that the "Big Reveal" can end a relationship ?

[TheMissus]

P.P.S. My wife isn't bigoted. If I were just a friend of hers - she'd be totally cool with me being trans, and would probably shop with me sometimes. It's different when it's your spouse. She didn't marry a woman....

Paula, I'm like your wife in this regard - I will be at the front of the picket line! I'll also comment on the 'femme' presentation she insisted on seeing. I have many online CD wife friends and I know at least three whose therapist insisted they encourage the H to dress as much and as far as desired to see how far they would take it. It was a sort of reveal in itself but in my mind not the fairest or most ethical. None of these marriages survived as all three men took things too far. Funny, but two of the three actually said after their divorce that they didn't even WANT to dress as far as they went but felt obliged, so in my mind this isn't a good method.

Sophiekitty, thanks That wasn't directed entirely at you anyway. I've read too many comments on GG's just needing to accept. It makes me sad and sick as it's unfair in a hundred ways. So thanks for the apology.