Double, you would think that, it is logical, but I don't know that the data would support you. Now matter how open-minded a SO may be, the thought of her husband or boyfriend in women's clothes is too much for many. Others accept it, some more quickly than others, some more thoroughly than others. But there are many stories from members here who did come clean (see Debbie's above) and still ended up with a broken relationship or marriage. It isn't just about telling her for sure, but exactly why some women can accept a CD SO and others is not easily explainable.