I really don't feel "pulled" back to male mode. I dress for whatever I am going to be doing. Work, male mode, housework, female mode. I know it is sexist but hey I am almost 60 years old. I am wearing a skirt with flats and a pink T shirt while I do my house chores this mornning. I will be in male mode later while I work on a remodeling project. I don't know how long I would want to be in female mode because I have never stayed that way for days on end. It would be great to be able to just wear whatever seemed comfortable at the time. I must admit that I am the most relaxed when in female mode.
I would not want to make a choice of one or the other as I enjoy being both. As I have gotten older the urge to dress more has gotten stronger. Maybe when I retire I will see how long I can go in full female attire. I have never been hung up on the whole CD, TS, Bi Gendered labels. I am just a guy that feels fabulous in female clothing and enjoys the calm that comes over me when presenting female.