@Arbon and @PaulaQ
You both asked how do I feel about being male?
In the past 2 years, 75% of the time I hate being a male, 25% of the time I'm indifferent.

@NyssaF
I'm gonna take you up on my suggestion and try CDing at home as often as I can.

Btw my vertical blinds in my living room might finally out me to my neighbors. They never seem to close properly, and are such pieces of junk, and my living room faces all my neighbor's apartments. It seems to be a common building pattern in LA to have apartment buildings where the living rooms all face each other in a courtyard, while the bedrooms are on the other side facing the actual outside of the building.