So I'm back from court. As expected the judge denied her claim for contempt. However, something amusing did happen. When speaking to the judge, my ex kept referring to me as "that person" instead of using my name or saying gentleman. The judge sternly corrected her saying that in the court she was to refer to me as "Mr. B*******". She countered by saying "But he's not, he's a...." At which point the judge cut her off again and told her to be quiet. As she started that statement, I said to myself, "Oh crap, here it comes." (As I said in my OP, my transness hasn't come up in the proceedings.) When the judge cut her off, I just had to chuckle inside. And now I'm laughing hysterically about it. She was getting so riled up the bailiff kept inching over to her side of the room to restrain her if necessary. So I still owe her money for the equity buyout of the house, but at least as long as I make my payments when I'm supposed to, I won't have to deal with her in person again. Now to shove the monkey suit back in the closet.
