For those with military experience and understand what Isha means by "special", I think she is between a rock and a hard place.
There is way too much "T", maleness, aggression in these "special" units and I think the question is whether to stay in the unit or move on to a less "exciting" job. I would not even consider coming out to these guys.
I have known three "special" Navy guys from my days during 'Nam and there is only one of the guys I would even consider telling about Miki. Even then there would have to be a really compelling reason to do so. Sometimes the hill you are climbing not only too tiring, but also too dangerous.
Oh, about your Canada problem, you don't have a problem.
