Hi, I joined this site as part of my I guess you would call it coming out. I've crossdressed my whole life since I can remember but I've only recently started being open about it online. it was a step for me but the real problem is whether or not to tell those around me like my SO or my family. I've realized who I am and I embrace it but I don't feel they will. I'm suppose to get married in a few months and I just want to know if it is a better idea to tell them now. If I do I honestly cant see the marriage going through but if I dont I feel it will cause more trouble down the road. I dont know what to do, any advice would be greatly appreciated.