Bi sexual?

[ArleneRaquel]

Diana,
Lovely post darlin. Best Wishes from a Chicagoland Girl.

[Marika01]

I told my wife recently about my cross dressing and she is starting to accept it. Today she said she thinks I might be bi sexual since I wanted to dress like a woman. I tried to explain that at its core my desire to look like a woman wasn't really a sexual thing, it just made me feel good. Have any of you experienced this with your significant other and what advice can you give.

Likewise. I have no sexual interest in other men. And the dressing doesn't give me a sexual thrill, it just means that the outside matches the inside.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Rick, That seams to be the first thing that people think about.

[Ressie]

It's not uncommon for people to wonder if other people are gay or bi even if they don't crossdress. For example, anytime two guys have to room together the question will enter their minds. Or if someone just has a peculiar personalty the thought may occur.

[KatieGG]

Back when my husband was just the boy in school I had a major crush on, I found out he sometimes wore panties. I can remember having a lot of thoughts come racing into my mind: why does he wear them? Where did he get them? Does he always wear them? Does anyone know? Then I had the "oh bummer I guess he is gay so I don't have much of a chance with him" thought. Obviously I was wrong about that but at the time knowing nothing about crossdressers aside of what the tv told me I just assumed any guy that wore girl's clothes had to be gay. After working up the nerve to talk to him and eventually started dating him he told me he was 100% straight and cding had nothing to do with sex for him in anyway. Not everyone in panties likes men, is how he put it the first time I asked him and that always made sense to me.

[whowhatwhen]

I must be weird since I'm mostly attracted to guys but I'm curious about women.
o_o

[Lacyfem]

I'm definitely not gay but I am definitely bisexual and have been with men when dressed and loved it. If not dressed, not interested. Don't know what or how this works in my mind but it just does. My SO doesn't know about the bi thing as she'd definitely would not go for it.

[Rudolph]

Totally bi, going Out with either gender has its perks lol. Although I will say I go through phases of liking one more than the other

[Rick5881]

Thanks for your reply, your a very pretty lady.

[Taylor Ray]

Yes, I am.

[Genesis]

I never thought I would say YES to being bi, but from my last two experiences with other CDers, I can definitely say HECK YEAH ! I love the feeling of making it with a gurl and I added it to my list of favorite things to do ; ) However I don't find men attractive, so am I goofball or what lol.....

[Kanwal]

I can remember cross-dressing from my very initial memories. Don't know how it started as never seen or heard of anyone else doing it that time. I always tried to utilise every available opportunity and used to avoid family events to proceed with my secret activity, and never shared it with anyone. It was discontinued some ten years back.

But even then and now, I never felt any attraction with people of same sex. While respecting others, in my humble opinion, CD is no way related to sexual interests.

Love!

[Lexi Moralas]

When I first started dressing at age 11 I was horrified! I thought my desire meant I was " turning gay"
And I didn't want to be gay. So I tried repressing my cding off and on until one day I came to terms with the fact that I am just not attracted to guys at all. And no amount of lipstick and high heels was going to Change that. And as I have evolves over the last 30 or so years I can tell you it hasn't changed. I still have no interest in guys , other CDs or even GGs while dressed. For me dressing isn't about sex. I am only interested in my SO. and only In guy mode

[Valarie]

My wife and I both have an attraction to the same sex (sexually) but not emotionally. I know I could not be in an emotional relationship with another man and she says the same about women. When I came out to her she understood that CDers are usually not gay. When I dress and she is in the mood she says she feels she has the best of both worlds lol. I was very clear with her that, "No I am not gay, your the love of my life, but I like wearing heels and pantyhose."

[Jaylyn]

I must admit I find many of you CD's on here very attractive as CDs, but I really don't think I would wanna have it go beyond that. I have wondered what it would be like though. My wife and I have done some crazy sexual things in experimenting because we both had some strong sexual appetites. Am I gay? No I am not but do have some tendencies to have fantasies about CDs. Especially if one is hot like a bunch of you are on here. I think though that the fantasies are more if you were really a gal what could happen. I don't think I would have a problem play acting or something like that. I may be just a crazy guy but dang some of the gals on here are so darn good looking that I actually think a lesbian affair would be hot. My wife has said she thought I was turning bi when we first talked about my dressing but after we did the dirty when I was fully dressed she changed her mind and said I was much more passionate in making love dressed than in guy mode. Maybe she has bi inclinations hidden deep inside? Hard subject to ponder.

[NicoleScott]

Some people are tri-sexual. They'll try anything sexual.

[Kanwal]

I must admit I find many of you CD's on here very attractive as CDs, but I really don't think I would wanna have it go beyond that..

Best statement. Thank you