You know, these answers are often loaded. You have people here who have wives or GFs who either read this forum or may in the future, and people give the answer just so they wouldn't risk losing them (as many people could). I mean, there is a pattern. The more one protests, the more they appear to have their current relationship at risk. That situation places a bit of doubt in any answers given where someone is in that situation. Just saying.

But, I'm not here to judge. For me, anyway, as time is passing, it's appearing more and more that, as a trans woman, I have zero lesbian tendencies, just like as a boy, I had zero gay tendencies. There is a certain energy, a certain chemistry that both have (entirely different from each other) which just never felt right. I remember running a while back where clearly some guy was flirting with me (as a boy) and the whole thing just felt uncomfortable to me. The same thing was when I was in a gay bar. The entire thought and feeling of the male-male dynamic just was highly uncomfortable to me and I had to leave soon after.

You see, when it comes to this, what people don't recognize in all of this is CONTEXT. The entire experience of love, romance and sexuality is done from a specific perspective: A man with a man, a woman with a woman, a man with a woman, a woman with a man - and from each interaction, the experience is entirely different.

This is where gender does have an effect on sexuality. It affects one's perspective, and in turn, one's experience. Now, to be clear, gender and sexuality are still entirely different things, as they've always been. But, if that perspective changes, the entire experience will change and who knows how things will turn out? Maybe you'll turn out to like the lesbian world and feel right at home with that. Maybe you'll realize interacting with men in a romantic setting is a far better thing than you ever imagined. You just don't know. But, once you start getting your mind tuned more into it's natural perspective (repressed or not), everything starts getting clearer and clearer (at least, it was, for me).