I say just a step at a time and like others have said, there is no hurry to do it... Get a wig if you need it, proper fitting clothes, makeup, etc...when you get your look then maybe venture out. You will be the one to know...remember...you do not have to be a super model to go out in public. Dress your age and stroll through a busy mall and take your time...busier the better...people are so wrapped up in their own little world they probably will not even pay any attention to you...if you are not brave enough for that, maybe a city park mid day when all the kids are in school...