Like most, those first voyages out were all about the clothes, the shoes, the mystery and the excitement.
Now, for me, it is all about just being a "normal" woman in the "normal" world. I have been a member of a women's gym, I'm an active member of a couple of women's groups, I hang out with both men and my gal pals and I'm Barbara.
Today really drove it home to me. One of my GG friends sent me a beautiful femme Birthday card addressed only to Barbara. I get a lot of mail and phone calls as Barb, I don't know why this simple but lovely card had such an impact, maybe it was just the perfectly casual, perfectly "normal" nature of it, but it sudddenly meant so much to me.
Hugs,
Persephone (Barbara in the real world).