I got out all the time... being read doesn't upset me.. I except it if I am and just smile and go on. I dress fem sometimes with bra and forms other times without. I love being able to be me.. I love the look on someone's face when their mind has the question..."was that a guy?" but they are not sure. I was in walmart the other day.. not really trying to pass but I had just got my hair done, was dressed fem.. and had on lite makeup. A girl their not only thought I was a female but she thought I was a woman she knew... I loved it.