So... Just how straight of a guy are you??

[Lorileah]

A stress test on many men, especially when they get older would show many just don't care (even if they care...nothing happens). Does that mean they are asexual? No mentally they may be aroused but physically no response. A genital response could be from fear too. Has happened before. When we get to the measurement of mental stimulation that would be more accurate. I have seen studies where they take blood pressure, heart rate, measure pupillary response and breathing. Putting the whole study on your genitals would be a weak study. Remember young men get excited at a lot of things that are not even sexual.

My feelings for other people have nothing to do with plumbing. I can love another person regardless of that.

I am in this camp, but I am older and sexual stimulation has gone the way of wanting companionship and caring. If intimacy happens, I am all for it.

Yes I was wearing a slinky nighty while there (early days of CDing - to find out if I was gay or not)

Interesting, most gay places like that forbid cross dressing. It shows that Australia is far more open than the US. The gay swim club here actually posts on their website "if you wear make up, don't come here"

I'm reminded of a line from an episode of Will and Grace, the one where Jack refers to gay porn as the ultimate heterosexual aphrodisiac.

forbidden fruit

What I do know:
I am attracted to the feminine form. Whether that be GG, Trans, CD....
I am, however, not attracted to the male equipment.

so...if you met a CD and things got intimate and...? The equipment is there, you know it before you met. I have met people like that, not fun when you think you met the right person and they run out after a few minutes.

I suppose acid test for all of us closeted types would be meeting another CD... and there's another thread opportunity...

It's all fun and games until you get your eye poked out

[LilSissyStevie]

You might be interested in this talk given by Oli Ogas co-author of A Billion Wicked Thoughts.

(link removed. You can look it up on YouTube)

[JennyMarie]

so...if you met a CD and things got intimate and...? The equipment is there, you know it before you met. I have met people like that, not fun when you think you met the right person and they run out after a few minutes.

Valid question. As I said, though, I'm not sure if I might just enjoy it, anyway.

As something to throw out there, I was married to a woman for a short while that (generally) did not like the look of the male equipment. It was "disgusting and ugly" to her. But she certainly enjoyed it. She just generally did not look at it.

But in honesty, if I was to meet a CD and I noticed things were starting to progress down that road, I would immediately make it clear... this is new territory for me. I don't know what, if anything, will come from it. I don't know if this is what I would want. It's still something I am mentally unsure of.

But then again, I'm not going to go out and actively seek out a CD to experiment with, either. It would have to be a chance happening that started progressing that way. I also couldn't tell you with any certainty that if I found myself really liking this person, that I just wouldn't care anyway or would work something out with them to where it all works. *shrug*

[MissTee]

I figure I'm a closet podiatrist. Show me a shoe sale advertisement and I'm swooning . . .