When I was in the Navy in the mid 60s, I had to defend myself from all of the guys who had never seen an ocean and since I was from California, and the Bay Area specifically, I must be gay. I loved the Navy but hated most of my fellow sailors.
Even though I am not yet full-time like you are Lorileah, I would never subject myself to that intimidation again. But, all us veterans have earned the right to at least deserve respect for who we may become after our service, and I would never suggest anyone follow my lead when comes to who you associate with.
