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    I have been out in the trans community for a long, long time. Usually a simple greeting, or a handshake at most seems to suffice between strangers. Sometimes a hug, but only if I had known the person previously (online or such) before meeting them in person.

    Hugs always seemed problematic to me. Some people have been abused and have an aversion to being touched by strangers, so I never assume a hug is welcome by a stranger. Especially true given the era in which I grew up in (the era of child molestation, sexual harassment, etc. in the news) where touch was considered a bad thing and frowned upon.
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    Hi Katey, The very first thing to do is lead with a big smile and a out stretched hand
    then let nature take it's course.
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    Hello Katey,
    I greet everyone with a simple "Hello" or " Hello how are you " if they offer a hand I will shake it which only seems to happen when greeting profesional people, if the person wants to talk a bit I will if not then just move on .
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Joanne

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    Just be flexible! It could be a smile and a hug or it could be an outstretched hand that you can lightly grasp with both your hands and hold on to as you tell the person sincerely that you are glad to meet them..People feel comfortable with hand contact,more often than not...
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