Isha,
How could I disagree... (particularly when your frustration is beginning to show...) - and I don't disagree with what you're saying in the context of community.
I'm more than happy to put my hand up here with respect to holding a TG banner... Of course, being constrained by my closet in other ways does rather reduce the impact of what I can do, but that doesn't prevent my unequivocal support of that in principle.
My only caution would be just what that word means to others...Good old Wikipedia has a fairly comprehensive entry that I can subscribe to - but look on something like 'Yahoo answers' :facepalm: and there are some scary and plain stupid interpretations... but I suppose a modicum of misunderstanding is always going to be there whatever and however we try to define it.
So - now that's sorted, what next? Or do we wait for someone to disagree and bundle 'em...
Katey x