Thank you all for your positive comments and support, I have determined that the most common advise is "wait and give time to adjust". Makes sense, I do considered myself very lucky, not only because my wife supports me, mostly because she is a great wife, mother, friend and I could not consider myself happy if she wasn't in my life.
I'll be looking forward to the day I meet other like me, until then this is Michelle's outlet which I am also very thankful for.
