As someone who is happily married I already know exactly who I want to be with.
When we are out together we can admire the outfits worn by others. It's possible to say "That outfit would look good on me" without analyzing whether I would look better in it than its current occupant. Making everything a competition seems a rather masculine thing to do.
Eryn
"These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I! How about that!" [Kaylee, in Firefly] [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"What do you care what other people think?" [Arlene Feynman, to her husband Richard]
"She's taller than all the women in my family, combined!" [Howard, in The Big Bang Theory]
"Tall, tall girl. The woman could hunt geese with a rake!" [Mary Cooper, in The Big Bang Theory]
I'm told by various GG's that competitiveness isn't a uniquely masculine quality.Originally Posted by Eryn
Well, if an attractive well dressed woman is present, and my wife happens to notice that I notice, she wonders if I am attracted to her or if I want to be like her.... and neither option is a good one for her lol.
Chickens should be allowed to cross the road without having their motives questioned
Thank you all for your comments. I just enjoy dressing in cute office outfits and enjoy being with a woman. I want to dress fem more but its hard to find a woman that enjoys both sides of me.
Also as much as I try I know I can look as good as a real woman. OMG I just love how they look, feel and smell.
I agree, but men tend to approach every situation as a competition. Women pick their battles better, IMO.
Eryn
"These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I! How about that!" [Kaylee, in Firefly] [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"What do you care what other people think?" [Arlene Feynman, to her husband Richard]
"She's taller than all the women in my family, combined!" [Howard, in The Big Bang Theory]
"Tall, tall girl. The woman could hunt geese with a rake!" [Mary Cooper, in The Big Bang Theory]
Not really seeing the up side there, but I guess that's because we are actually running out of closet room and it's a hassle making room for "her" clothes.
True, but boasting about being better than other people is unappealing in anyone, regardless of gender.
The problem of being a straight long time CD doesn't really exist! It is only in your mind if you let it be! I have been a CD for over 60 years! When my wife was alive, she could make me look like a very real Stephanie! I cannot do what she did. So I just dress Enfemme and become a male Stephanie in public. And as another thread of mine says, I have no problem.
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
I'm married to a beautiful woman so that part of the equation is out. As to seeing woman in an amazing outfit, sure, I want to wear it, but , I know my limitations. I sure won't be rockin' it. but I can still dream the dream!
regent,
[QUOTE=JessM.;3513677]Not really seeing the up side there, but I guess that's because we are actually running out of closet room and it's a hassle making room for "her" clothes.
Ahh so it IS a good thing then....you have MONEY to buy clothes ( 2 wardrobes in fact) and put them in a CLOSET...in a HOUSE...yea...if only people around the world were so lucky to have that. Yea...thats a Good problem to have....
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