Isha, Yo hit a home run! Well said. We are all in different situations, with differing personalities and quirks, dealing with different types, with quirks. I struggle with extremely judgmental, cruel older brothers, who are not "live and let live", and mu father, too. I have not been in a romantic relationship, since 1987. I have told a number of women friends my secret, and only one seemed tolerant, but the rest totally judged me negatively. I still believe it is best to disclose, if i think the GG is a possible mate. Live and let live , as long as something is not violent, or harmful to others.
