Hi Sammie . . . so the 500 pound elephant is now out of the room. Just give her time to process what she has learned and take your cues from her demeanor. She sounds like a smart lady and I am guessing you can read her body language by now. When you feel the time is right approach the subject again then begin the long phase of communication. Now take a deep breath and allow yourself to process as well
Hugs
Isha
