How can we say it's not a fetish?
I read lot's and lot's of post's here about getting dressed. Most of them describing in great detail what sort of unmentionables they are wearing. How big their breasts are. How it feels to slip on a pair of nylons ( Bleech! ) We post about the brand, the color, the denier stay up, garter belt, control top, sheer, seamed etc etc. What brand make and model their bra is and on and on.
If it's not a fetish then why do we need to know about your underthings? Why do you feel WE need to know? Your shell, IE top skirt or dress or trousers and shoes I get that. But have you ever heard a clutch of women sitting around discussing ad nauseam their underwear? Me either.
I don't need to know about them. Why not just say. I got dressed in this outfit and went to place X.
PS. This does not include discussions on how make, tuck etc etc etc. Those are very specific craft post's.
Now I feel better
Cheers!