So tonight after the Folklorama outing enfemme with friends, I decided to go to my favourite late night coffee joint to relax with a nice cup of java. About 15 minutes of enjoying my coffee, a little liquored and wobbly aquaintance (a friend of a ts friend) sat at my table and started engaging me with some chatting. I have seen this person at night clubs and at the ts friend's annual house parties for nearly my whole crossdressing "life", however have never exchanged a word with her prior to tonight.
After several minutes of her drunken blabbing of her situation she had that night, she started praising me with her support of all the hardships and pain that I have overcome and am currently dealing with. That was where I tried to cut in and mention my past & present state of happiness and the lack of hardships I had to overcome to where I am currently.
I can't for the life of me remember or think of any real hardships or pain dealing with my crossdressing that she started questioning me with. "Society treatment when out in public", "relationships (family, spousal, friendships, etc) or work being jeopardized if found out", "the dire need to be accepted", "the fear of being seen as a freak", "bullying", "unhappiness with outward appearances", "rebellion of your family upbringing".....
So are we all supposed to have such hardships and pain with our crossdressing?
I can't be the only person that has/had a wonderfully blessed crossdressing, could I?