We do not joke as much as the years roll by, but she'll do something totally supportive and accepting from time to time (she grabs an outfit off my closet rack and tells me to wear it, after seeing me looking at the closet for minutes- trying to decide...) or just funny things: (like the time she used my Olay mousse moisturizer thinking it was hair mousse- that even she tells me "that Olay mousse is lousy...").
But we do laugh, and that is a vital for humans to function in a healthy manner, and even more so in a marriage.
Good job!