I like to wear a nighty every morning to do my morning routine. I walked by the mirror and saw my hair sticking up, sleep in my eyes and 24 hours of beard and hairy legs. There's no way I would let my wife see me like that which made me think. If your SO is accepting, are there any minimum requirements? Do they require a wig? Makeup? Shaven? shaved legs? bare chest?
At the same time are there limits on your acceptable presentation? You know, things you require before you'll voluntarily spend time in dress around her/him?