NOT Gay

[Kathryn Martin]

Maybe, but then again, maybe not.
It's all not so cut and dry, black and white, as we would like it to be.
I never, but NEVER, use butter, EXCEPT when I eat freshly boiled lobster. So, does that make me a "butternut"?

I think from your post and comments you seem to be very afraid that someone might call you gay. If you are attracted to men and women depending on how you present maybe you're bi-sexual. That would make sense don't you think.