I don't think my values have changed that much, but it has been a huge comfort to me after the loss of my SO 3 years ago. For quite a while there I wasn't sure I would make it; the depression was so overwhelming, primarily due to feelings of guilt and failure after her death. Unfortunately, chemicals were useless and "counseling" was impossible. due to an earlier experience of betrayal by a so-called "Psychiatrist"; I refuse to put my well being in the hands of another person unless they are willing and able to follow my instructions to the letter. This site was my only outlet for a lot of my feelings and I really do thank those who communicated with me during those times. I'm about 24/7 now, unless I go out, which happens when I need supplies or have a medical appointment or other urgent matter.
I'm still the same irascible old curmudgeon that I was, although that doesn't mean that I don't care; I've just had to learn to deal with things as they are and can do so without blinders or rose-colored glasses.
