I guess the point of this is why do some of us feel the need to tell all the important people in our lives?
Well, it's a hard thing to keep completely secret, even though better judgement says don't tell anyone ever! Not telling the truth about one's self is actually a form of lying. Too bad we're not in a society where honesty in all things is most important. People get fired, divorced and unfriended for being honest about things besides crossdressing. I'd have to feel very close to someone to tell them I'm a crossdresser. But even then, that person would have a hard time not sharing the secret with one other person. From there the bell will toll for all to hear!