The way I look at your situation, along with many others...it is there (wives) loss. They give up good husbands and fathers, just because they can't control every aspect of the husband.
So true. And this happens in a world where many women complain about men being *******s and players.
Very often the rejected CD happens to be a faithful husband, great father and a financial provider.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.