Hi Ashley,
Like others I've been where you are. There was a long period when I'd dress, not be satisfied either with my look or whatever, and take it all off. Some of this was probably mixed in with guilt feelings. When I finally just accepted the fact that I am a CD and found that people would accept me as me, I broke out of that mold. Now like Isha when I need to be in guy mode I am, and let Claire be Claire when she can. And like Teresa and Charlene said, underdressing helps me; my bras and panties are just underwear I wear all of the time.
Maybe it just takes time to sort it all out ... if we ever do.
