After reading your post it brought back a lot of memories for me. All I can say to you is be patient , don't do anything stupid. YOU are a Daddy to some kids from what I read...babies come first!!! always!!...the wifes and your acceptance and /or tolerance would be my first goal...it takes patience and time ......I'm sure there's a lot of others on here who are better than me at giving advice on this...I just know what you are feeling...it's tough....
