Pamela,
I'm convinced more now that Cders can't say 100% they are one thing, we're at various stages on the male-female line ! I'm trying to get an answer, working with my counsellor to what is obsession and what is reality! The confusion doesn't clear when you dig deeper it just becomes more complex, we're all slightly different so one answer can't fit all !
Some say don't analyse it just do it and enjoy it !
I have to agree with Isha's second paragraph, I'm still the same person just present differently and in a way I prefer !
