I don't think what seanmuscle says is a total load of BS as much as a gross exaggeration. A while back I spent some time looking at profiles on fetlife. The vast majority of women identified as submissives or listed submissive type fetishes. The women that identified as Dommes were mostly pros in it for the $. What I thought was interesting was the number of women that identified as sexually submissive and feminist. But when I thought about it, I saw no contradiction. The men were less likely to identify as dominant than women were to identify as submissive. I know that fetlife is not representative of the general population but you can still learn a lot by looking at the extremes of the bell curve. There's a reason that "50 shades" was popular among women and there's a reason there isn't a femdom equivalent as popular among men. I'm definitely NOT interested in sexually submissive women. Been there, done that. No more.
The only boyfriend I ever had was a nameless, faceless abstraction with a penis. That's about as close as I want to get to the real thing.
