I agree DeeAnn, I think we tend to create this duality of ourself a a construct to protect ourselves from the shame and guilt we used to feel. Hell, up to a year ago, I viewed my feminine aspect as just that, and aspect of who I am. However, in my ever growing effort to accept and understand myself, I've come to realize there is no "other aspect." I am simply who I am. The duality doesn't exist, I am still the same person. Always have been, always will be.
Ever & Always,
Caden Lane