Hi its an interesting story I can relate a lot with... You are happy now and at peace allegedly and thats all you can really hope for no matter what label you think applies to you... Just know that this NEVER goes away and in fact its known to get worse over time as you age.... I know I went many years denying my true self, or MAYBE not.... No one can argue that I wasn't at least on the surface a "successful" man... I used to actually try to believe I was a man too.... I was wrong....
Thing is it NEVER ever went away and just got stronger as I got older... The fact that your here says something to me anyway... The line between TS and TG/CD/TV is a very fine one and its not uncommon at all to try everything you can to deny the ultimate truth before finally accepting it and dealing with it... Again not sure what your point is here but your not alone anyway .)