Hi Stacie,
If the term is used to belittle, demean or insult someone without their acquiescence then I would hazard a guess that it would not be welcomed by any gender. However, I think in the world of cross dressing it speaks to a particular style which some may wish to exhibit in order to derive please/emotional release or just plain fun. It take all kinds to make the world turn and whatever floats your boat is fine by me so long as it doesn't hurt others and you play nice.
Cheers
Isha
