So I was hanging out with my parents on the 4th (they know nothing about my girl side), and my mom was complementing me on my shirt. Without thinking, I said "yeah, I finally knuckled down and bought some new boy clothes". She paused, took a long hard look at me, and asked me "what other kind of clothes do you buy, girl clothes?". I looked her straight in the eye and said "something like that", and winked at her. No further discussion. My wife and I almost fell over laughing when we got some privacy to discuss it. I regret nothing about that exchange, and am actually hoping she'll broach the topic again at a later time when my father isn't around. Guess Tristessa really wants out!