Quote Originally Posted by Sandie70 View Post
However, to immediately make sexual advances or send porn to someone you don't know (and has a website or page that is obviously more on the fun side and even warns that this type of behavior is not welcome on that page) then you have stepped over the line.
I agree with you, but honestly I think that a huge chunk of CDers (re the millions of racy website results on Google) take it for granted that it is sexual and they assume this must be so for every other CDer. Right? People have a hard time imagining that anyone could be different from themselves.

If you are getting so many unwanted advances, I think this indicates the norms of what is out there. Only a few hundred CDers post regularly in this forum compared to hundreds of thousands of CDers there must be in the US alone. A lot of them join (there are a few thousand people who have logged in during the past few months), but then they move on and rarely post, I assume because their cup of tea is more on the sexual side.