I've managed to get my Sunday treat, the wife starts work at 8.00am and won't be back till 4.00pm .
Walked the dog totally underdressed , I have to wear a jacket otherwise the skirt is visible through the open pockets on my over-trousers .
When I get back take off the top layer pop in my forms some lipstick and heels and I'm ready to start cleaning the house. I enjoy it so much catching glimpses of my stockinged legs and heels as I vacuum, after a while I forget to check the windows, and someone came to post a village news letter, I may have had my back to them while in the hallway with the Dyson.
As I sat down to lunch I began to think about the comfort zone I was in, if my wife walked in I would have been totally comfortable with it, she wouldn't of approved but she knows I dress when I clean.
I've read so many comments from members about their comfort zone around the house, and the acceptance level of their partners and also the usual boundary of not taking it into the bedroom ! Reading between the lines I get the feeling that many would love to take it into the bedroom if permitted . My feeling is and I think many others will agree that it's something we want to share with our partners and no one else !
This is more than crossdressing, so what is the desire to let out and show a side of us that a man doesn't normally do ! So what do we call it a female trait ? Or is it as some have suggested before a stage of transition ?
It may sound odd to some people but it doesn't feel odd to be partially female with various stages of dress and makeup/wig and want to be with a person you love and share it with them, it feels the most natural thing in the World !
Whatever it is women don't have the trait and can never fully understand what or why we're doing what we do ! Personally it hurts me a great deal to have had that side of me rejected for so long, I feel that's it damaging the part my wife does wish to see which is the man she married .