Quote Originally Posted by Ezekiel View Post
Sexual preferences do not change categories of sexual orientations. I don't like men, so I am hetero. No middle terms here, its a simple concept for me.

The "just how straight are you with women" sentence does not make much sense to me, and honestly, it sounds a little narrow minded even if it attempts the contrary, to sound more open.
Let me explain why I find it narrow... basically, it means that being straight is exclusively for folks who are, lets say, simple and traditional, in their sexual actions, and have none or little variance in their "roles".

I am myself what I think you are defining here, I certainly prefer women who are assertive and have strong personality traits, and I prefer to take the submissive role in a relationship, however this does not make me gay in any sense, because I am only attracted to women, in whatever means or way it may be.

With this situation, then why would I identify as anything else than heterosexual? When its obviousbly my right to define myself this way as I explained above given my nature?



I get why you mean, and it is my situation aswell in a sexual sense. But seriously, I don't see why would that make us gay in any sense.
In my mind, things feel very feminine, which leads to acts usually associated with gay sex between two women.

Maybe it ain't gay, but it damn sure ain't straight.

But then, as I stated earlier. It doesn't matter.

People be carryin' on in this thread like you can accidentally "catch the gay".

Loosen up, yall ... it ain't like we're all that normal of a crowd to start with. Why start drawing arbitrary lines between us?

Love yourself for who you are, and forget about the rest of the BS in our culture!