Dominant or Submissive ?

[rah]

what is your true personality? are you more dominant or submissive?

i'm the submissive type maybe because of my shyness idk

[Madilyn A.]

In my feminine state of mind I am submissive, and this is where I prefer to spend my time. However, the rest of the time in my male persona I tend to be more dominate. I hate that !

[Michaelasfun]

Subby here.

[Lilblondecutie1407]

I can do both and I agree with Madilyn A: "In my feminine state of mind I am submissive, and this is where I prefer to spend my time. However, the rest of the time in my male persona I tend to be more dominate."

[Rhonda Darling]

If you mean in the BDSM sense, I'm not a player in that league. If you mean in the traditional male/female role sense, then I'm dominate type A aggressive-when-needed male, and a relatively passive/submissive when in full femme -- unless a situation develops needing full on macho. Not a doormat in any way if I need assertive Rhonda to surface. Then it's load and lock and we rock and roll.

[kinky_caitlin]

Im quite submissive and like it that way

[Jaylyn]

I'm the dominate one in my male self. When Jaylyn shows up I am usually still dominate enough to speak my mind but tend to tone it down a whole lot. Wife says I'm a whole lot nicer in Jaylyn mode.

[SFRobin]

As a girl, definitely submissive.

[grace7777]

My personality is geared more to the submissive side. This applies whether I am in male or female mode. I have no desire to be dominant.

[Crissy Kay]

I do tend to be on the sub side when dressed. But then again, that kind of goes with being a maid!

[JoanAz]

I have to mirror what Crissy Kay said, in Female mode definatley Submissive, I male mode not so..
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[Tracii G]

Never really thought much about that.

[Alice_2014_B]

Both Dom and Sub, whether dressed up or not.

[Jazzy Jaz]

In life I'm assertive, but in the bedroom my partner and I seem to both enjoy the submissive side. In male mode I can be a bit more dominant for her but when dressed we're still working on that and working out the "kinks", or working in I should say.

[katie_barns]

I have always been more of a passive person. Not submissive in the sexual sense.. I will fully admit that my wife is the dominate personality in our relationship. I pretty much the same whether in drab or dressed

[Kate Simmons]

I'm just myself. I can play the sub game but don't cross me or see how really dom I can be.

[cdinmd206]

I can do both. I was basically a sub for a number of years and gradually started being more of a dom. I fully agree what a good friend (who was my mistress) once told me. You have have to be good sub before you can be a good dom.

[Closeted Kat]

en femme submissive, male more dominant version of submissiveness

[Amy Lynn3]

Most of the time dominate, but I'll let a lady have her way with me any time she wants.

[Lily Catherine]

Both, dependent on the situation. Leading and dominating may indeed be a highly esteemed trait, but knowing how to follow is still necessary at times, and neither of these are beholden to gender in any way. I'm also taking steps towards avoiding being a passive person.

I'm not a BDSM practictioner at any rate, and have an intense dislike for being subjected to forced feminization as part of submission.

[CarlaWestin]

In my feminine state of mind I am submissive, and this is where I prefer to spend my time. However, the rest of the time in my male persona I tend to be more dominate. I hate that !

Ditto! But, I like that. I'm badass in male mode. But as Carla, I just want to be a tool.

[MissTee]

Misty is always in charge. Drab or Dress.

[Laura28]

I have been dominate all my life and in work very dom. Now I would like to be the sub especially when dressed.

[Katey888]

I realise I'm probably missing something here...

But why would anyone want to be the sub...???

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Katey x

[Sarasometimes]

Katey888
You could be a subway sub Foot Long? A bit of a cheesy reply! LOL

Carla can you add a ditto for me too!