Hey Rae,
Only 2 years ago did I really start dressing regularly and more seriously, though it was a tendency from a very young age. ATM i have come to regard it as a part of me that i shut off and am now consciously cultivating and maturing with. I am mid 40s with 2 young daughters. My wife is accepting if not totally into it, (i am always willing to man-up on request). My hope is to eventually find friends to Xdress with and have a games night once a month or some such thing, but i'm a bit chicken still. Hugs to you, Tanya+